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She likes it when I do for her, but she won't do for me.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. I am 18, she is 17. I've been consistently fingering her/going down on her for several months now. Yet she has never taken the initiative as to...

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...and he likes me to do to HIM, but won't do to me.

I'm 18 and have been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year. We've done all sorts of things with each other, including oral sex. However, he refuses to perform oral on me. I've given him...

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I'm 14, and a virgin, but can fit fingers inside my vagina: is something...

I'm 14 years old and a virgin. When I explore myself or masturbate I find that I can fit at least 3 fingers inside myself without much discomfort. I haven't had sex and yet it feels like I'm stretched...

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Can my boyfriend catch HPV from me through oral sex?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and I just found out that I have HPV. I told my boyfriend that I had it as soon as I found out and now he is acting really weird. Now, he doesn't...

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Why does male sexuality seem so repulsive to me? Am I just too feminist?

This is more of a psychological issue, I think, than a physical one, and possibly unsolvable, but I'll ask your opinion anyway because this site seems pretty clued up and sensibly feminist and lovely.I...

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Did my previous masturbation de-virginize me?

I am 15 and when I was 14 I started becoming very interested in masturbating. I actually used objects and penetrated them inside my vagina. After a while i realized how stupid I was being so I stopped...

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I don't feel ready for sex at all: should I?

I feel like at my age (16), it is so young to have sex. If I were to be dating someone right now, so many things would scare me, that I would choose not to have sex. The chance of an STI, pregnancy,...

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That First Period Talk

Yesterday, after working my second job at the clinic, I was effectively kidnapped by my co-worker Gigi and her ten-year-old daughter Sophia, whom I adore. She calls herself Big Sophia around me, my pug...

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So Much More Than Just One Night

Author:  Amber Introduction:  I was very excited that he was finally coming home, I just never realized it would end up like this. December 21st, 2008 will be a night I will never forget.read more

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What can I do to help him stop being so scared of pregnancy?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now and we have even talked about getting married. We recently moved in together and to be honest we are as happy as two little beavers. Except for one...

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I like gay male porn, but gay men in real life freak me out.

I have doubts: I am a 14 year old guy, I'm from Argentina now living in Florida and I have always pictured myself with girls in romantic relationships, and I still do. But now I enjoy watching...

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How I Learned About Lube

When it comes to sex and sexuality, I was a very, very, very late bloomer. Raised in a Pentecostal Christian home where sex and sexuality were rarely discussed beyond, "No sex until you are married,"...

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How (and why) to Root for Team Awkward

I am 15 years old and I have only made out once. I do not know the person I made out with, and I don't exactly remember what it was like. I want to make out with more people, but I am afraid I will not...

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Does sex have to involve penetration? The idea of it makes me totally sick.

Okay so I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian and the reason for this is that when I read something naughty straight stuff makes me sick. When I read lesbian erotica I like it... until they start penetrating...

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Fear of pregnancy? Ready for sex?

I am almost 18. My long distance boyfriend is 22. I have decided he is the man I want to lose my virginity to. Seeing as he is 1500 miles away means that he is not going to be doing it anytime soon....

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I want to try masturbating, but I'm afraid it will hurt.

I'm 15 years old. The only sexual things I've done are kiss and give a handjob. I want to start masturbating but I'm very scared. I have an EXTREME fear of pain: I can't even get shots without...

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Is sex somewhere you feel you have to be perfect?

No way! Sex is something where everyone gets to experiment and not worry about perfection. Not really, but I do wish sometimes I could feel like I was. Kind of: I worry sometimes about doing things...

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What’s In A No?



Author:  Quinn Sjogerman Introduction:  What's so scary about asking when someone else may say no? Rejection. Read on to dial down the fear factor and learn to accept no like a pro. Sometimes even the...

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Did my previous masturbation de-virginize me?

yesmanI am 15 and when I was 14 I started becoming very interested in masturbating. I actually used objects and penetrated them inside my vagina. After a while i realized how stupid I was being so I...

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I don't feel ready for sex at all: should I?

AnonymousI feel like at my age (16), it is so young to have sex. If I were to be dating someone right now, so many things would scare me, that I would choose not to have sex. The chance of an STI,...

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